LGBTQ+ Family Law: Compassionate Representation for Your Unique Family

Family law involves deeply personal matters that affect your most important relationships, and LGBTQ+ families often face additional layers of legal complexity in protecting these relationships. Our attorneys combine comprehensive family law experience with specialized knowledge of LGBTQ+ legal considerations, ensuring your family receives representation that acknowledges your unique circumstances while vigorously advocating for your rights and interests.
Understanding Unique LGBTQ+ Family Law Considerations
While many family law principles apply universally, LGBTQ+ individuals and couples often encounter distinct challenges requiring specialized legal approaches. These considerations span the entire spectrum of family formation, protection, and, when necessary, dissolution.
Navigating Evolving Legal Frameworks
The legal landscape for LGBTQ+ family rights continues to evolve at federal, state, and local levels. While landmark cases have established important protections, inconsistencies remain across jurisdictions, creating potential complications for families that move between states or have connections to multiple legal systems. Our attorneys maintain current knowledge of these developments to provide guidance that reflects the most recent legal protections available to your family.
We carefully consider how various laws interact with your specific situation, addressing potential gaps in legal protection and developing strategies to strengthen your family's legal security regardless of where life may take you. This forward-looking approach helps prevent future complications while affirming your family relationships under current law.
Recognition of Family Relationships
Legal recognition of LGBTQ+ family relationships involves considerations that may not arise in other contexts. For couples who were together before marriage equality, questions may arise about when their legal relationship began and how premarital assets should be treated. For parents, establishing legal relationships with children may involve additional steps beyond those required for different-sex couples.
Our attorneys help navigate these complexities, working to ensure all your family relationships receive proper legal recognition and protection. We identify potential vulnerabilities in your family's legal status and develop solutions that strengthen these connections under current law.
Creating and legally protecting your family often involves specialized legal processes for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples. Our attorneys provide comprehensive guidance through these important life transitions.

Adoption and Second-Parent Adoption
Adoption remains an important path to parenthood for many LGBTQ+ individuals and couples. While joint adoption by same-sex couples is legally protected, some agencies may still present barriers or complications. Our attorneys help navigate these processes, ensuring your rights are respected throughout.
For families with children born to one parent, second-parent adoption often provides important additional legal protection even when both parents are named on a birth certificate. This process creates a legal parent-child relationship that is recognized across state lines and provides security regardless of potential future legal developments. We guide non-biological parents through this process to establish permanent, unambiguous parental rights.
Assisted Reproduction and Surrogacy
Many LGBTQ+ families are created through assisted reproductive technology, which introduces specific legal considerations. Whether using sperm donation, egg donation, embryo donation, or gestational surrogacy, establishing clear legal rights from the beginning is essential for protecting your family.
Our attorneys help create comprehensive agreements with donors or surrogates, navigate fertility clinic paperwork, ensure proper pre-birth and post-birth legal procedures, and secure accurate birth certificates. These steps create legal certainty and protect both parents and children from future challenges to their family relationships.
Co-Parenting Agreements
For LGBTQ+ parents who are not married or who choose not to adopt, co-parenting agreements provide an additional layer of protection by documenting parental intentions and responsibilities. While these agreements cannot create legal parentage on their own, they establish important evidence of the family's structure and relationships.
We help create detailed co-parenting agreements that clarify parental roles, decision-making authority, and obligations, providing additional security for parents who may face legal challenges to their relationships with their children.
Relationship Recognition and Dissolution
When LGBTQ+ relationships change or end, specialized legal knowledge is essential for navigating the dissolution process fairly and respectfully.
Same-Sex Divorce and Relationship Dissolution
Though marriage equality is now established nationwide, same-sex divorce can still present unique challenges, particularly for couples who were together long before legal marriage became available. Questions often arise about when the marital relationship effectively began, how to characterize property acquired during commitment ceremonies or domestic partnerships that preceded legal marriage, and how to value contributions to the relationship during periods when legal recognition was unavailable.
Our attorneys understand these nuanced issues and work to ensure fair treatment that acknowledges the full history of your relationship, not just the period of legal marriage. We help clients navigate complex property division, support determinations, and the emotional aspects of relationship transitions with sensitivity to their specific circumstances.
Custody and Visitation for Non-Biological Parents
Custody matters can be particularly complex for non-biological parents in LGBTQ+ families, especially when legal parentage was not established through adoption or court order during the relationship. While many courts now recognize de facto or psychological parent relationships, the legal standards vary significantly by jurisdiction.
Our attorneys have experience advocating for the parental rights of non-biological parents, building compelling cases based on the parent-child relationship, the history of parenting involvement, and the child's best interests. We work to ensure that important parent-child bonds are legally protected after relationship dissolution.
Protecting LGBTQ+ Families Through Additional Legal Planning

Beyond traditional family law matters, LGBTQ+ families often benefit from additional legal planning to address potential vulnerabilities and ensure their wishes are respected.
Comprehensive Estate Planning
Thoughtful estate planning is particularly important for LGBTQ+ families, especially those with complex formation histories or family members who may not support their relationships. We help clients create comprehensive estate plans that:
Ensure assets transfer according to your wishes
Establish guardianship designations for minor children
Create healthcare directives and powers of attorney that respect your chosen family
Protect against challenges from non-supportive biological relatives
Address potential complications with recognition across state lines
These protective measures provide peace of mind and security for your family's future regardless of changing legal or personal circumstances.
School and Healthcare Authorization
Families with children benefit from creating additional documentation authorizing non-legally-recognized parents or trusted adults to make educational and healthcare decisions when necessary. These documents provide practical protection in daily life, ensuring children receive needed care and support in all circumstances.
We help families create comprehensive authorization documents tailored to their specific family structure and needs, facilitating smoother interactions with schools, healthcare providers, and other institutions.
Our Approach to LGBTQ+ Family Law
Our representation of LGBTQ+ clients is grounded in both legal expertise and genuine respect for your family's unique characteristics and needs.
Knowledgeable and Affirming Representation
We recognize that effective representation requires both legal knowledge and cultural competence. Our attorneys maintain expertise in evolving LGBTQ+ family law while providing a welcoming, affirming environment where you can discuss your concerns openly. We understand the unique stressors LGBTQ+ families may face in legal contexts and work to make the process as comfortable and straightforward as possible.
Our entire team—from attorneys to support staff—is committed to respectful communication that acknowledges and affirms your identity, relationships, and family structure. We use appropriate language, pronouns, and terminology, creating a supportive environment throughout your legal matter.
Proactive and Creative Problem-Solving
Given the evolving nature of LGBTQ+ family law, effective representation often requires creative, forward-thinking approaches. We anticipate potential complications and develop proactive strategies to address them, looking beyond conventional solutions to find the approaches that best protect your specific family configuration.
This may include combining multiple legal processes, creating additional documentation to supplement statutory protections, or developing novel legal arguments to address gaps in current law. Our goal is always to provide the most comprehensive protection possible for your family relationships, even in legally complex situations.
We recognize that many LGBTQ+ individuals have experienced discrimination or marginalization in legal and institutional settings. Our trauma-informed approach acknowledges these experiences and works to create a different kind of legal experience—one centered on respect, autonomy, and genuine support.
Throughout your case, we maintain transparency about legal processes, potential challenges, and available options, ensuring you maintain informed control over decisions that affect your family. We also recognize the emotional dimensions of family law matters and provide appropriate resources and referrals when helpful.
Is Our LGBTQ+ Family Law Practice Right for You?

Our LGBTQ+ family law services are designed for:
Individuals and couples seeking to create legally protected families through adoption, assisted reproduction, or surrogacy
Parents wanting to ensure their legal relationships with their children are secure
Couples navigating prenuptial agreements, marriage, domestic partnerships, or civil unions Individuals experiencing relationship transitions who need assistance with separation, divorce, or custody matters
Families seeking to protect their relationships through estate planning and related legal documents
Anyone facing family law matters who wants representation that fully recognizes and respects their LGBTQ+ identity and relationships
Take the First Step Toward Family Security
Family law matters impact your most important relationships and require thoughtful, knowledgeable guidance. If you're facing family formation, protection, or dissolution issues, we invite you to schedule a confidential consultation with one of our LGBTQ+ family law attorneys.
During this initial meeting, we'll discuss your specific situation, explain relevant legal considerations, and help you understand your options for moving forward. Our goal is to provide the information and support you need to make confident decisions about your family's legal security and future.